修养的极致——平静
有许多机会一些人在某些竞赛中得了大奖，他们将会哭泣，无法控制自己的情绪，非常激动。并且，他们的亲戚，尤其是父母太激动了几乎不能说话，不停的哭着与周围的人握手。我们认为这些情景都很普通和正常，但是一些非常有智慧的人说：“我恐怕这个人的出息到此为止了。”为什么，因为他们不能保持平静。他可能会对这次成功感到很满足从而停止对技能的磨炼。所以我们经常看见一些短暂的明星，仅仅有一次杰作。
there are many chances when some people won a great prize in some big competitions, they will cry and couldn't control his own mood,so excited.And what's more, his relatives ,especially his parents will be too excited to say anything and shaking hands with people around them while crying.We always think these scenes are very common and normal.But some extremely wise men will say that "I'm afraid this person's achievements will be over from now on."Why, for they couldn't keep calm.He may be satisfied with this success and stop continuing to cultivate his skills.So we often see some instant stars only with one good masterpiece.
我们也会看到其他的例子。当某人在公司里是一名很平常的员工时，他很谦虚有礼，但是当他被提拔到了某些职位时，突然间就变的很傲慢，好像不知道如何表达自己的骄傲。你认为这样的人会继续往上升吗？许多事实已经告诉我们，几率很小，甚至有时候即便是他们进入了人生中的黄金时期被提拔到更高的职位，他们的光环也不能长久。为什么，因为他们不能保持平静。
We can also see some other examples.When somebody was an ordinary staff in the company, he was courteous and polite,but when he was elevated to some positon, he suddenly became so arrogant and seemed not knowing how to express his pride.And do you think this kind of people will clime up further? Many facts have told us the possibility is very little, even sometimes he went into his golden times and be assigned to a higher position, his glory will not last long.Why,for they couln't also keep calm.
为什么一个人想得到更多的成绩必须保持平静呢？因为是否能够保持平静是一个关于内涵和容量的问题。如果他表现的很激动，这表明他将再也不能容纳这件事了，这件事让他感动震惊，他沉迷于这次成功，从而很难超越它，因为他的心没有更高的高度。
Why should a man keep calm if he wants to get more achievements? Because whether to be able to keep calm is the issue of the connotation and capibilty of the man.When he behaves excited, it manifests he couldn't contain the matter any more, whicn makes him shocked so much.He feels obessed about the success and will be hard to surpass it any more, for his heart has not that higher level.
我们可以看见周围有一些人成功了以后像以前一样低调勤奋，这不仅会给周围的人留下好印象，而且证明了他很了解自己应该怎样在新的职位上做好，从而减少错误，这些将会给他带来更进一步的成功。
We can see around us there are some body who will keep low-pitched and strinous as before when they get success, which will not only give others good impressions ,but prove he knows well about how to behave well in the new position and make less mistakes,so these will lead to his further success.
如果一个人能够在倒霉时也能保持平静，他也能够容纳它，理智的面对它，这将不会使他被失败或损失击败，或者不会使他丧失理智犯一些荒唐的错误。所以他将有能力处理这个问题，减少损失，重新打起精神继续他的追求。
And if one man could keep calm, when he meets with bad lucks, he will also contain it and face it sensiblly,which will not let him defeated by failure or lost,or not let him losing his sense to make ridiculous mistakes.So he will have enough abilities to handle the problem and reduce the loss and gather himself up to go on with his pursue.
有一些人，他们只是一个小组的组长就会整的组员们鸡犬不宁，然而，还有一些人，当国家大干部就像上趟厕所一样平静。所以我们可以看见不是你的专业技术水平能够带给你高职位，而是你的心的容量和内涵。上帝总喜欢捉弄人，一个人生命中什么被看的最重要什么就很难得到，但是他面对平静的人就很无奈，所以你越平静，你就越顺利。
There are some people ,when they are only the leader of a small group ,they will disturb the group to make the members couldn't have quiet life.While there are also some people,feel so calm as the high official in the government, just like go to the toilet.So we see it's not your professional abilities leading to your high positon, but your capibility and connotation of your heart.The God always make fun of humans, what aspect in one's life is being regarded as most important will be hard to acquire ,but he will be helpless to face the calm ones,so the more clam you are, the smoother your life.
